I will NEVER let anyone "help" load a horse for me. Had a few bad experiences in the past, and for the most part, people are just idiots and want to try to force the horse to load. I'm sorry, but you aren't going to force a 1,000+ pound animal to do anything.
Especially if I had just bought the horse, in a situation like this, I would not have let them whip him. It is now MY horse and I am going to have to deal with his trailer loading for life. Therefore I don't want any more screw-ups that I'm going to have to fix later.
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It is not enough to know how to ride; one must know how to fall.