So I'm switching barns
but I want to know how far in advance I should tell my instructor? I've known said instructor for about 5 years (fortunately she pretty much knows her boundaries as an instructor and doesnt try to be as a lot of people seem to say "second mom"-ish) so its going to be hard leaving but I'm starting to get fed up at said barn. I still like said instructor and I have many friends at this barn who are staying so I don't want to burn bridges. I don't really want to get into specifics about what exactly I don't like so would it be rude to say that I talked with my mom and decided it would be in good interest to take a break from *barn name here*? How would you go about it? I doubt she would be rude to me, she is EXTREMELY non-confrontational. But I know she will think its SUPER personal.
*ETA: How far in advance should I tell her that I'm leaving?