We have talked about it a little bit more and I think (hope) we will be able to work something out.
As far as bringing my trainer with me to events goes - I feel more comfortable with her there to coach me for warm up and such. There are other trainers there who you can get coaching from, but its not the same considering they don't know me or my horse that well. I am pretty new to eventing, so I definitley have a lot to learn and need all the help I can get! I also don't have a truck and trailer.