thanks for all your advice guys!!
i actually loaded him in the trailer yesterday after i had ridden him and we stood in there for a moment and i talked to him, then i used the thing i been working with him on, i put my hand on his chest right below where his neck becomes his chest, and i dont push, my hand just stays there and i just repeat 'back'.
the first time he stepped sideways but i put my body in the way and he ran into me so he thought it was his fault then i took it one step at a time and he backed right out of the trailer!! i was so proud!!
i wasnt touching anything other than his chest, i didnt even have the lead rope in my hand!!!
it makes me feel so happy that he trusts me that much now!!!
i also got to tell off my uncle so i am triple happy right now!!!!
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