Lets see I will start, I have found that have a deep solid relationship helped me break through with my mare. For example.... I took her out to the arena last night, it was already getting dark ... but I wanted her to get out and run around ... well I am starting to jump her and I made and X and was running over it and she was following me over it. So cute! At first she was weary and didn't want to come but when she realized I was on the other side and that she wanted to be with me ... she jumped it. So moral of the story ... spend time with them, loving on them and develop trust!