When I go get Secret she hides behinds her "girlfriends". The horses don't seem to mind that but she squeezes in between them so that I can't get in. I cluck at her and I try to encourage her to move by swinging the lead rope a little. She moves but then I walk after her. Plus I stay calm because that if I start getting frustrated and start running after her she takes advantage. She is being mare-ish at these times. Last time my trainer had to come after her and make her run in circles. She was being horrible. So now I tryed to use treats but her friends got mad and pinned their ears back and kicked and she went running off. I am kinda scared of getting kicked. I don't know what to do. It takes me super long to get her ready and my trainer says we have to get their early and say our lessons at 10 we have to get there at 930-945 just so we can get her out. If we are 5 minutes late or something for our lesson then we lose that times :(. It is because she sometimes has back to back lessons so you need to get finished on time. So I end up missing like 10 minutes of my lesson! Should I catch her and then give her a treat so she knows that when I catch her its not a bad thing but then maybe when I go she will misbehave ya know like run away and then if I give her a treat she will think bad behavior is acceptable. Please help ! What should I do? Sorry for long post.