It was a gymkhana type show. Pretty small and local.
The owner had no problem with me handling her horse the way I did, she just was worried of what people thought.
Then it got me wondering if when I start bring my horses to shows will I be judged for telling them they can't do something, or giving them trouble...
I don't know if it's like this every where, but I find horse people here very judgmental and they gossip with each other about everyone, even if they act like they like the person there talking about.