Tbs are my fav even though they can be hot. You're feeding a good feed... doesn't generally make them hot like sweetfeed. In some cases though, tbs need to be worked almost daily even if its just lunging. Also keep in mind that some relationships just are not meant to be. I tried for 2 years with a paint gelding and our personalities just clashed. I loved him but realized I had to let him go. The lady who bought him, you could tell they just clicked when she first came out to test ride him.