Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: southern Arizona
Well, my mare prefers men. If a guy stands next to the corral, she'll come over, sniff, and hang out with the guys. She has little interest in women, even if she knows them.
I have a gelding who prefers women. I'm pretty sure it is based on his experiences at a ranch in Colorado, since he avoids anyone with a cowboy hat. Over the years, he has learned to tolerate cowboy hats, but a woman without a cowboy hat can approach him much easier. The scars on his side where he was spurred bloody make it easy to understand his feelings.
My BLM mustang shows no preference.
For riding, skill makes far more of a difference than sex. Any of them strongly prefer a good rider to a newbie, although the geldings will tolerate newbies, and the mare has put up with a couple of first time riding guys (but not girls...she despises teen girls). But in the saddle, they care about balance & confidence, not sex.
"People can teach us the rules, but only horses can teach us the art of riding."