I have been through many trainers, mostly bad lol. Now, I'm at a barn with 3 trainers, and I only like one of them. He loves me on my horse, and he works with me. He doesnt like me working with the other trainers and he doesnt like them working my horse because he says they stress my horse out (which they do).
Every now and then he isnt there, and I have to go with one of the other two. When I ride with my fav trainer Max, I do amazing. I feel flawless. I can jump 3'6 cantering with a frame. I feel in control, I feel comfortable, I feel in sync. Thats one day. The next day, Max is gone and I have to ride with Cathy and Juliet. I do pretty much the same things, but i can't get him to canter, framing is next to impossible, he is stressed out, we are unbalanced. I look like such an inexperienced rider riding a horse that is to advanced for me, and thats probably what they think! I hate it so much and don't know why I just cant ride well with them. And to make it all worse, when i first started with max, I had come from Juliet and Cathy. WE had to pretty much start all over so that I can be where I am today. he told me some of the things they had told me dont work with all horses, especially mine. Whenever I ride with them they are like vulchers trying to change me back. After rides with them I just get so stressed out with what they think about me, and why I jusy cant ride well with them.
Does anyone else have this too??