I suggested to just start riding her and doing groudwork and spending loads of time with her so she would respect her owner (my friend) more. It worked for a while, but now she gets extremely mad/hot when she has to be under saddle. She refuses to do anything, and when we make her, she just bolts to the gate. No amount of yanking or jabbing with the snaffle seems to work.
I could probobly work with her and cure her, but my friend is less horse-savvy, and she doesn't understand much. Also, she wont let me take her horse to my pasture to work with.
What can I tell her to do, in simple terms, to help? I give her advice, and it worked for a while, but now she is getting no where.
Should she just give up the horse? Should she get a new bit?
Please be honest, but do not put down my techniques, because they work for me, even though they don't work for you or you don't agree with them.