Thanks everybody! Sorry it took me so long to reply.......
Loosi :thanks! I double checked with her saddle and you were right it doesn't fit
the only thing with that is she was out of shape when I got her so I have been building her muscles up (which is prob. Why her saddle doesn't fit anymore) and she still isn't fully in shape so I will wait on getting a saddle till she fills out completely but I will pad her saddle and see if that helps ^.^ and the bit she (Lucy) informed like 3 weeks ago that she no longer liked the bit I had her in so the past 3 weeks we have been checking out different bits (I have someone helping me out with that so hopefully I will find one soon) and also I know I am not heavy on her mouth but the seat thing is a possability (but I don't think so) basics are definitely a must :) and I had thought learning to stand still was a good one
Shellbe : thank you :) read above for the fit problems ^ you are right method one would NOT be a good idea not sure about method two but I will give it a try :) and the fidgeting I have tried that and I think it has made it a little better but I will get back to you on that within the month :)
Shiloh : thanks! Yes she does stop for me on the gorund ^.^ she has nice ground manners (although sometimes we have to do a little review) I would love to see your ground work info! I don't have a lot of things that I can work with her on the ground but I would love to try that (I am really bad with body language so anything that helps would be awesome ^.^ )
Bilyeuamber that's awesome about the bit change! I personally disagree with martingales (I believe they just mask the problem not deal with it and I want to deal with the problem) but thanks :)
CJ82SKY : thanks! The saddle is the problem :( sadly but I will be getting a new one in about 6 months ^.^ thanks you so much! How much do you charge?
Peggysue : I am currently trying to find one she likes ( I am starting to think it might be a teeth problem but she just had them floated not to long ago) so I am just kinda trying out different ones ^.^