I plan on sending one of my youngsters to trainer as well. I just cannot be firm enough with her when she tries to kiss and leak me all over. :) And she has some major issues too. I do NOT consider it as defeat or anything: I'd rather have done right than have a dangerous horse, which noone can handle (and i'm not a trainer in any ways) .
And yeah, that's just darn tough decision I've been delaying for couple months already hoping to handle it, but....... :(