okay, I just didnt want ppl to think I abuse miover because I've popped him on the butt,
Because of my softness has lead to habits which im slowley understanding, and finding thru discapline when its warrented that its helping, establishing the bounderies between me and miover, as he is probably confused on what im trying to get him to do,
OH, no way!! Totally a different situation. If they ask for it certainly give it to them!! I am glad you cleared that up. I was starting to worry. Lol.