Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Crab Orchard, KY
OK, the guys perspective here. The breeding barn option would work well, if you have that available to you. That's guaranteed to shock just about anyone into being receptive.
However, if you don't have that option available, then you have to speak in guys terms to let him know whats happening. Change the situation into an environment to which he can relate;
Place him, mentally, in a bar, and set the time at about midnight. All the other guys have had a few drinks and closing time is approaching, so they're getting anxious about who their going home with and one guy has his eye on you. He wants you to be HIS date and intends to claim his territory, etc.
You get the picture. He'll wise up quick when you put it in his terms. That horse is bigger, badder, and able to kick your little butt ALL around that barn/stall without so much as breaking a sweat. So, don't turn your back on that horse and don't underestimate the horse's intentions. You man-up/Alpha-up or you kicked to the curb, literally.
That might get his attention. If it doesn't, maybe you need a new man.
"The road goes ever on and on, down from the door where it began. Now far ahead the road has gone, and I must follow, if I can." J.R.R. Tolkien