I don't want other people working with my horse. What do I do? - Page 5
 
 

       The Horse Forum > Training Horses > Horse Training

I don't want other people working with my horse. What do I do?

This is a discussion on I don't want other people working with my horse. What do I do? within the Horse Training forums, part of the Training Horses category

    Like Tree28Likes

     
    LinkBack Thread Tools
        02-10-2012, 02:08 PM
      #41
    Weanling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tinyliny    
    Sorry, but there has to be more to the story. Is the OP boarding under an agreement that the BO uses te horse in a lesson program? That might explain why she seems to have no say in how the BO uses her horse. It would be nice if the OP would explain things more clearly. It's hard to make sense of things as they are now.
    I couldn't agree more. Did you sign a contract? Are you allowing her to use your horse for a reduced board?

    There is obviously something else going into this.
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
    Sponsored Links
    Advertisement
     
        02-10-2012, 02:20 PM
      #42
    Weanling
    Where's Paul Harvey when you need him? We need to know "the rest of the story."

    Sorry, only the old timers will probably get that. Bad joke day, I guess.
    wyominggrandma likes this.
         
        02-10-2012, 02:31 PM
      #43
    Super Moderator
    I get it. I am that old!
         
        02-10-2012, 02:56 PM
      #44
    mls
    Trained
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by kitten_Val    
    Going OT, but what do you consider to be a "danger"? Just curious since you are a BO with long-term experience.
    Repeated aggressive behavior that causes damage to human, livestock or property.

    We did have one horse in the tie stalls that kicked at anyone (horse or human that walked by). After eye issues were ruled out, owner or I stood there with a buggy whip. Only took a couple of times and he quit trying. He pinned his ears and swished his tail but quit kicking.
         
        02-10-2012, 05:06 PM
      #45
    Foal
    Hey guys I'm back and it looks like you guys have had quite the discussion while I was at school lol. Thanks for all the replies.

    There is much more to the story, but I didn't think it was relevent, but here it is:

    My horse has some problems that the BM brought up about a week ago to me and I've been working on it with the barn owner showing me how to take care of it. So yes the problem is being addressed. But unfortunatly the BM (we'll call her "T") doesn't like me at all, and I have yet to figure out why. She has a very difficult personality and doesn't really like anyone except the volunteer (we'll call him "D"). D is very cocky and thinks he can play trainer with any horse he wants and T lets him because they are so buddy-buddy. I try to just avoid all of this silly drama but I can't now that it involves my horse.

    Also, I do not have any agreement, which is why I don't want anyone handling my horse when I'm not there.
         
        02-10-2012, 05:25 PM
      #46
    Foal
    Yikes that's a bad situation to be in. Its ridiculous that your bm thinks its ok to have someone with no experience working with a horse with problems. I would talk to "T" again and explain to her that under NO circumstances is "D" allowed to touch your horse and if he does there will be hell to pay. Are you comfortable having T help you with your horse? If not tell her so and perhaps attempt to reach an agreement on how to handle this situation. Its only been a week, different horses learn at different rates and yours probably just needs more consistent handly from QUALIFIED people. Have you seen any improvement in this time? If you do not want help from T and she is unwilling to compromise on you having assistance with the horse then move barns or get a trainer to help you. I still would probably just move barns. If anyone touched my horses without my permission they would lose a body part. I wouldn't trust this person farther than I could throw them. From the way you describe her I would not put be surprised if she decided her authority overrules yours as the horses owner. So in conclusion lol attempt a compromise of more time needed, a trainer, or get the hell out of there! Honestly no one should ever train my horse unless I say so or I would be gone
    Posted via Mobile Device
         
        02-10-2012, 05:27 PM
      #47
    Weanling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by AbbyLee    
    Hey guys I'm back and it looks like you guys have had quite the discussion while I was at school lol. Thanks for all the replies.

    There is much more to the story, but I didn't think it was relevent, but here it is:

    My horse has some problems that the BM brought up about a week ago to me and I've been working on it with the barn owner showing me how to take care of it. So yes the problem is being addressed. But unfortunatly the BM (we'll call her "T") doesn't like me at all, and I have yet to figure out why. She has a very difficult personality and doesn't really like anyone except the volunteer (we'll call him "D"). D is very cocky and thinks he can play trainer with any horse he wants and T lets him because they are so buddy-buddy. I try to just avoid all of this silly drama but I can't now that it involves my horse.

    Also, I do not have any agreement, which is why I don't want anyone handling my horse when I'm not there.
    Still, have you asked her to leave your horse alone? Are you intimidated by her? I know if I were young and I thought someone didn't like me I might be a little afraid to stand up for myself.

    You have to tell her flat out that either you don't want her working with your horse or only when you are there. And you absolutely don't want D working with it.
         
        02-10-2012, 05:37 PM
      #48
    mls
    Trained
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by AbbyLee    
    Hey guys I'm back and it looks like you guys have had quite the discussion while I was at school lol. Thanks for all the replies.

    There is much more to the story, but I didn't think it was relevent, but here it is:

    My horse has some problems that the BM brought up about a week ago to me and I've been working on it with the barn owner showing me how to take care of it. So yes the problem is being addressed. But unfortunatly the BM (we'll call her "T") doesn't like me at all, and I have yet to figure out why. She has a very difficult personality and doesn't really like anyone except the volunteer (we'll call him "D"). D is very cocky and thinks he can play trainer with any horse he wants and T lets him because they are so buddy-buddy. I try to just avoid all of this silly drama but I can't now that it involves my horse.

    Also, I do not have any agreement, which is why I don't want anyone handling my horse when I'm not there.
    School? Are you a minor?

    Who has the authority - the BO or BM?

    No boarding contract? HUGE red flag.
         
        02-10-2012, 05:39 PM
      #49
    Weanling
    When is your mare kicking out at the other horses? Forgive me if this has been addressed..I may have missed it.
         
        02-10-2012, 05:42 PM
      #50
    Showing
    Time to get a written boarding contract in place, and spell out just who is and isn't allowed to work with your horse.

    If the BO refuses to address it with the BM, then she's not doing her duty as owner of the facility.
         

    Quick Reply
    Please help keep the Horse Forum enjoyable by reporting rude posts.
    Message:
    Options

    Register Now

    In order to be able to post messages on the The Horse Forum forums, you must first register.

    Already have a Horse Forum account?
    Members are allowed only one account per person at the Horse Forum, so if you've made an account here in the past you'll need to continue using that account. Please do not create a new account or you may lose access to the Horse Forum. If you need help recovering your existing account, please Contact Us. We'll be glad to help!

    New to the Horse Forum?
    Please choose a username you will be satisfied with using for the duration of your membership at the Horse Forum. We do not change members' usernames upon request because that would make it difficult for everyone to keep track of who is who on the forum. For that reason, please do not incorporate your horse's name into your username so that you are not stuck with a username related to a horse you may no longer have some day, or use any other username you may no longer identify with or care for in the future.

    User Name:
    Password
    Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
    Password:
    Confirm Password:
    Email Address
    Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
    Email Address:

    Log-in

    Human Verification

    In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.


    Old Thread Warning
    This thread is more than 90 days old. When a thread is this old, it is often better to start a new thread rather than post to it. However, If you feel you have something of value to add to this particular thread, you can do so by checking the box below before submitting your post.

    Thread Tools

    Similar Threads
    Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
    Working Horse Cow? crimson88 Horse Videos 18 02-10-2012 06:48 PM
    Working my horse Anneka Horse Talk 4 08-16-2011 08:01 AM
    Working Cow horse Tasia Cutting and Team Penning 2 08-08-2011 01:57 AM
    Working for a Horse xdrybonesxvalleyx Horse Talk 15 07-08-2010 04:00 PM
    working horse too much? trampis Horse Training 10 05-17-2010 05:58 PM



    All times are GMT -4. The time now is 05:36 AM.


    Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
    Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
    Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0