I think you made the right move, buying the Clinton Anderson vidios . Keep watching them, and better still, go see him in person.
You don't learn this training overnight. I have been studying Clinton Anderson, Linda and Pat Parelli, and several new one's. Be sure to use the roap halter in the round pen. Use the one Clinton sells,
You can order it on www.clintonanderson.com
. I use them and the horse truely, cannot pull against you as hard. You have many years of stubborn behavior, to work through ,with this horse. The first thing you have to ask yourself is, is he worth it to me ?
If he is , then dig in. I personally love it when my horses challange me. Im stubborn that way. Hope it works out for you.