I think I might be doing join up wrong. I already wrote to Monty Roberts two months ago (e-mail), but the preply I got was jsut to subscribe to his website.
I know when you're doing join up you have to look for the three main signals that the horse wants to be a part of your herd: head lowered, licking their lips (chewing sound), and the inside ear is on you.
But when I tell my horse to stop after 30 minutes of mayhem running, and changing directions, she doesn't act like she trusts me the way that the horses trust Monty. I think I'm doing something wrong, but I don't know what exactly. I don't face her when we stop, and I drop everything.
I need her to trust me so I can get her into the trailer.