I'm not trying to shut anyone down but I know exactly where the problem is coming from now, not just guessing, and I can guarantee you after talking to several people, there is no trainer here that will take the light of day to spend time on this problem. I've already tried asking people I know what they suggest, and this is the best I can do. Every piece of advice I got was "go to a trainer" when its not a possibility for many reasons and thats all everyone wants to suggest.
skseternalangel - I never heard of a parrot mouth, can you elaborate? We did try messing with her this past week and she just really will not let anything go near her mouth. Treats, sure, anything else, not really.