I recently bought a 12 year old arabian named bella and she respects me on the ground. She respects my space, follows me around without a lead rope, I can say stay and she will, I can say walk and she will, I can say whoh and she will, if I get near her an give her a apple and walk away she will follow me untill I leave the pasture, if I run she will run behind me in a happy manner. But when I try to ride her she is hesatant for me to mount an when I do she bucks and throws me off. When I got her the first3-4 weeks she was perfect for everything, now she only respects me on the ground. But when I have my dad around she calms down and respects me and does anything. And how can I get her to stay put when I mount off a mounting block without my dad holding her?? And she's good on the ground but hates being tied up, and lunging. She keeps pivoting when I try to mount