Do NOT do Parrelli! Its too much fluff and creates pushy horses that think they're in charge. It will lead to dangerous situations.
Aside from videos, there are many helpful books too. The 101 series (101 dressage exercises, 101 arena exercises, 101 jumping exercises) is very very helpful, clear and step by step. It basically plans every day out for you and starts from the very basics of training. There is even a part on rider fitness. And it is in callendar format so you can hang it up to read while you ride.
Last edited by nricutti; 05-20-2012 at 02:40 PM.