Originally Posted by arastangrider
she's fine untill she relized she can't put her hoof down she picks it up fine and she doesn't get agressive at all she is just really scared and will do anything possiable to get away
Do it very slowly. Just start with 1 sec, do it for 3-4 days in row, than 2 secs (just pick and count to yourself), then 3 secs etc. It looks like you are half-way through already (she picks up, so you don't have to teach her). It doesn't sound like disrespect issue. She may just very afraid to loose the balance.