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        03-04-2010, 11:52 AM
      #11
    mls
    Trained
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by iridehorses    
    A horse should be safe and comfortable with anyone. She can still be very in tune with you and you can be her safety; but not to you to the exclusion of anyone else.
    Totally agree.

    They don't have to love and adore others. It's the same concept of a child going to daycare or school, they have to respect those around them.
         
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        03-04-2010, 11:52 AM
      #12
    Banned
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Honeysuga    
    I don't have that kind of problem with mine, they are respectful of anyone. What I mean is A) They work with everyone, but I know how to get that extra everything out of them. And B) I don't like anyone else on them. Hehe guess that would have been a better way of explaining it in the first place.
    What she said. While my guy is fine for anyone to handle I am jealous of anyone but me riding him. He is personal, like my tooth brush, my wife, my car. Only I get to ride it.
    He has enough confidence in himself to work for anyone.
         
        03-04-2010, 12:02 PM
      #13
    Yearling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by RiosDad    
    What she said. While my guy is fine for anyone to handle I am jealous of anyone but me riding him. He is personal, like my tooth brush, my wife, my car. Only I get to ride it.
    He has enough confidence in himself to work for anyone.
    Ditto.
    Athena has manners. I don't have to be there if the vet comes out to do shots, or if the farrier comes out to trim her feet, anyone can lead her around and handle her. Other people can ride her to but... I don't like it. Lol
         
        03-04-2010, 12:13 PM
      #14
    Weanling
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by RiosDad    
    What she said. While my guy is fine for anyone to handle I am jealous of anyone but me riding him. He is personal, like my tooth brush, my wife, my car. Only I get to ride it.
    He has enough confidence in himself to work for anyone.
    I agree! My mare was my personal horse, I was the only one that rode her, and we were perfectly in sync. The few occasions I let others ride her, I cringed the whole time.

    "NOOOoooo!! She doesn't like that! You're doing it all wrong!"

    Everytime she was ridden by someone else, it was generally because we were on a trail ride, and I was riding my other horse who was a trail master. After riding for about 10 minutes though, the jealousy would rise and I would force the friend to switch with me.

    I don't think I'd want a horse that would only respond to me, but it was wonderful to have a horse that I was so in tune with and we both knew each other so well.

    I currently have a dog that's afraid of everyone except me, and it's a pain in the butt. She's creepily obsessed with me, has to be near me all the time or she cries. I love her, but I wish she was more like my other dog who's very outgoing.

    So yeah... it may be flattering to have a horse that is only loyal to one person, but I would imagine it would get old, since you'd have to be catering to the horse all the time.
         
        03-04-2010, 12:30 PM
      #15
    Green Broke
    I agree with everyone else, they need to have manners, what if something happened and you were all of a sudden in the hospital and someone else had to take care of her? At least if you were going on a trip or something you could make her familiar with someone before you left.
    Rena is a one person horse, and it takes her a while to get used to strangers... when my trainer tryed teach her how to clip her ears she lunged back and then lunged forward and stuck her head in my chest, haha she's sorta a baby sometimes. But the vet and any stranger can come and lead her, do groundwork, and she will be ok with that. She doesnt like peopleriding her that don't ride like me or my mom, haha but she puts up with it when she needs to. Because she wouldnt want to hurt anyone, haha and when I get on her after I let someone else ride her (which KILLS me to watch, haha I don't do it anymore) she was not happy with me at all.
    But they need to be 'handler friendly' to anyone that comes near them. :)
         
        03-04-2010, 12:36 PM
      #16
    Foal
    In response to IRideHorses:

    While I do understand what you are saying, excluding others from working with her was not a conscious thought. The fact of the matter is, there was no one else to work her. I come from a family where I am the sole charge of my horses. My parents keep them on our pasture and they buy the hay. Everything else falls on my shoulders physically, financially, what have you. Which is how I think it should be. I don't come from money, so the prospect of buying a horse trailer to take her places and gain experience is not feasible. Nor have I had any friends (up until I joined the equestrian team last month) that have had experience with horses whatsoever. The thought of asking these people, who have all proclaimed to be frightened of horses, to handle her never seemed like the greatest idea. But, Earlier this week I bit the bullet and enlisted the help of several of these close friends to come to my barn and interact with/stand near her. Maybe its short notice, maybe it won't work, but some effort is better than none.


    The fact that I have done her this "injustice" does not fall on deaf ears. I think about it everyday, which is why I came here for answers. In regard to being a "responsible" horse owner...I'm not going to toot my own horn, but will merely say I've tried to do the best I can with what I've been given.



    Hopefully this reply won't be the catalyst that sends this topic spinning off into a heated debate.
         
        03-04-2010, 12:38 PM
      #17
    Started
    Arabs are known to be very possessive of their owners - indeed I am told that it is a desired trait that owners around the Mediterranean look for in a horse.

    I personally do let certain individuals come near my mare
    Namely my wife and a young lady is who teaching my girlie "how to do show jumping". But the rules are the same for all of us, no shouting, no whips, no kicking - only gentle positive handling. The vet is allowed in close, as is the farrier or any other therapist but only in my presence.

    My policy came about because I have watched my mare show distinct signs of distress when certain humans are near her. And why should I even consider letting a fight /or/ flight creature come near vexatious people.
    If I am doing my best to keep my horse in a quiet and calm environment, the last thing I want is one of those heavy handed, loud voiced, ignorant people to come near her. Just what good could it do?

    My male dog (a very gentle Rottweiler) is the best judge of human character I know, but my horse comes a close second. If she shows by her eyes, ears, mouth, neck
    Or posture she is nervous around someone, then I know to take care. However if she will stand close by an individual without moving then I know she is content with that person. I then feel easy.

    Man is the key predator of horses - and horses know it.
    B G
         
        03-04-2010, 01:26 PM
      #18
    Weanling
    Havana is a one person horse. Probably because her past owners were *horrible* I don't ride her, but if anyone else wants to lead, groom, take pictures of, TOUCH her she'll start kicking. Or biting. I don't find it a problem because I'm the only one that takes care of her...but I can see where it would be a problem with other horses. I like one person horses, not as severe as Havana, but I still like them.
         
        03-04-2010, 01:34 PM
      #19
    Showing
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by bearsareneat    
    The fact that I have done her this "injustice" does not fall on deaf ears. I think about it everyday, which is why I came here for answers. In regard to being a "responsible" horse owner...I'm not going to toot my own horn, but will merely say I've tried to do the best I can with what I've been given.
    That is an excellent attitude. Not having the means to have others handle your horse is different then not allowing them to.

    I've only had Hollywood for about 4 or 5 months and he is slowly forming a bond with me. Since no one in my family rides but me, no one else handles or feeds him. He is so push button that I can't put a beginner on him without the risk of them giving him a cue without realizing what they did and him doing what he thought they wanted. I am very very selective about who I allow to ride him but I want as many people as possible to be able to handle him.

    As several others have said, I am very jealous of anyone else riding him but I know it is for the best. I want him to feel safety, and a reliance with me but still comfortable with others.

    Does that make sense?
         
        03-04-2010, 01:49 PM
      #20
    Weanling
    My horse is a one person horse. He's very lovey and sweet to me, and does anything I ask of him. He comes when he's called, follows me around, neighs when I come near him and is very gentle.

    When someone else tries working with him, he's a complete brute. He bears his teeth,flattens his ears back, lounges at other people, bites and kicks, if they try handling him in a asle way, he smashes them against the walls, and so on.

    I trust him as much as on can trust a horse, but I know he can never be a good multiple person horse.

    The only con is, I don't think I could ever sell him even if I had to
         

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