So this is what I use on her now and I don't have a problem with it. It did take me awhile to get used to as I had always used a snaffle before, but once I got used to it I love it!
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So I would like to keep her in that until I move her to snaffle, but just to toss this in too :) what the difference between a bitless like this
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Or a sidepull?? Or even this thing that I found that looks a tad scary to me??
Saddles Tack Horse Supplies - ChickSaddlery.com Royal King Training Bosal Set
What I have her in now I love so I think I'll talk to him about keeping her in it until she's ready to move on :)