I have a 16.1 HH chestnut Quarter horse mare and she is EXTREMLY stubborn, she wont let me lead her, she wont move when I get on her either, I could run up to her in the most aggresive way, whiping the crop on the ground, and she wont care. She has no respect toward me. And I also checked to see if she was lame or had any pain. But no, its just that she is very stubborn. Do you think I could get her to be respectful toward me and get her to listen to me?