Evil- I know you're so right, my ponies wouldn't dare kick a wall with me around, one good scare was all it took to fix that. The trouble is when I'm upstairs. I don't want to not feed them when it actually is time, if they're being rude. I've tried ignoring them and waiting them out but they just keep going.
Notice how I switched to "they" instead of "she". So last night I didn't have time to make her a new hay net, because I had work allllll day. But I shut her top door as usual at bed time in an attempt to limit her door kicking, and I saw my adorable little pony stick his head over his door, which I thought was too tall for him to do as well as he did. So I decided just to try and shut his top door too. Sure enough, there was no noise this morning! It was my stinkin' pony all along, I think. Either way I'll be making her a smaller hay net today, and keeping the pony's door shut and see how that goes. Thanks everyone you all rock ^^