Alright thanks guys. I've been looking in to stuff and reading and I think I might try aromatherapy to see how it goes. I have heard many things of how Lavender calms horses and I might try some of it.
I have a book on Ttouch just haven't gotten around to using it.
Jane you might be right in your first post. I feed him a small scoop of pellets in the evening but he hasn't been worked in a while. Also I hate admitting it but I am nervous to ride him. When I was 9 and started his training I had a bad fall where he stepped on my back. It frightened me and we just haven't had the same connection.
He is 7 years old I believe. We had started his training when he was a 3 year old but after my fall I stopped for a year or 2 and now his training is unsteady and only in the summer months. He has cleared a 3 foot fence unasisted though and it kills me that he ain't reaching his full potential. HE could be an amazing show jumper.