There is this mare that I have been training, and I consider her mine, just to clarify anything I might say referring her to being owned by me. Well the person who owns her, I am friends with, and her kids have told me that they are going to give me the mare. Well she is very little and I personally don't want to own a paint. Well my grandmother has agreed to them to give me her for my birthday. Well I'm not supposed to know that I'm getting her, but I don't exactly want her, I want a different horse but I don't know how I should come upon letting people know this.