I totally get what your saying. And the owner has lowered the price to 6k. And I was actually thinking of maybe taking lessons from this woman and keep on with the training. I totally understand that I can't just get up on the horse do everything I see in these videos so that's why I was thinking if I got her I would stay with the trainer for a while. If it all works well I would transfer to a trainer closer to where I live. But I'm always thinking about the money issue. Tight on money but this is my chance to get a nice horse, I mean I still have to try her out and see if I like her and if we connect at all. I would probley take lessons on her for awhile. And see how it goes. Some people just keep telling me so many things.. just upsetting to me. They make it sound like I can't have any fun riding if I ever want to be good.. They say I'll have to pay A LOT of money to take lessons and get really expensive training if I don't want to screw up this horse, they say she needs retraining but I think she's stunning and responsive Again I still have to try her out to see if it even works.