Thanks for that response Alison :)
I usually try and get him to trot over the fences but he believes he has to canter over 65cm, I'm defiantly not going to be doing that height in comp any time soon that's for sure, lots and lots of schooling.
I had another training day today and did 2 rounds one of 45 and one of 65, 45 he was amazing, charged at one jump but I collected him back and rest of the round was really really nice, didn't even look at the scary fill
Second round of 65, ah well was a different story, I don't think he really went flat, more just a lot of cantering, really really fast and not listening to me, warmup he was great but in the ring he just got to fast.
I'm only going to be doing that height at training rounds for now, and schooling at home and lessons.
I think I will start to use the pole before though.