Is your right stirrup longer than the right? Do you have more flexibility in that ankle? Just something to think about with your one " issue" that you mentioned that no one has mentioned yet. Seemed like on the grey, the whole saddle went right at one point. As a mom who's had some time off too, It's hard to get those legs back to normal. Lots of time w/o stirrups... Lots of time in the saddle regardless.... Love to see a person who likes to start the greenies jumping!