Moei, you said you rode English. Did you actually jump? If not, I'd suggest to take some lessons yourself on trained jumper to get a feeling and basics. Then start taking lessons with your own horse. Jumping is not just about getting over the jump - there are lots of elements to correct jumping, and without knowledge it's very easy to train incorrectly that will take forever to re-train.
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