Anebel I think you hit the nail on the head...my trainer is ALWAYS telling me not to be so tense (we do 99% flat work, 1% jump work!) and she always has me up in 2 pt. Learning to walk, trot, and canter and absorb the shock.
It seems like my arms and shoulders stiffen up a LOT...I know I need to work on loosening up, but for some reason even when I try, I still find myself "stuck" in a certain position...any tips??
"The times when you have seen only one set of footprints in the sand, is when I carried you..."