So when I approach the jump, around one stride beforehand I'm not sure if I go into the correct position of two point or not, but I know I just lift myself from the saddle and am not "sitting anymore" (as to not go into two point too late and go flying off like I almost once did). I then release/grab the mane, and because X likes to over jump everything lol, I go flying over (still securely on his back of course, not off him). :P
I don't feel unstable, rather secure actually, and my trainer says I'm not too bad or slow at getting myself back together after the jump, but the thing is, while I'm jumping I feel as if I'm sitting too much out of the saddle and that my bum isn't near enough like you jumping gurus often recommend. I don't know if what I feel is right and to what extent, but some tips on that part? Don't know anything about jumping expect for release, heels down and leg.