Finding a horse that matches my personality would be awful! I am a slow going laid back type, who doesn't get in a hurry for anything. If I had a horse like that, where I constantly had to be after them to keep them going I would likely sell it.
I don't want a push button horse or a horse that will babysit me. Very rarely do I ride that there isnt a job to do, even when we are out trail riding, and I want my horse to be much more forward and ambitious than I am.
Im certain that my high energy parents would have culled my given the opportunity.......
My prefrence is to have to hold one back rather than have to push it forward.