Originally Posted by Kaylastacy12
What can I do to show her I'm the leader without making her hate me?
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Stop with the, 'I don't want her to hate
me' stuff. What you want from a horse is RESPECT first and foremost. Without respect, affection is completely useless.
She's a horse, not a human being. She's not going to 'hate' you if you discipline her and show her that her place in the herd hierarchy is under you. In fact, that will put her mind at ease because she'll know her place and won't have to guess at it.