I just watched the coolest video on Youtube called The Path of the Horse. I was amazed at what I saw people do with horses with just their body language and energy. Klaus Hempfling seems supernatural. I ordered his book Dancing with Horses. Watching videos like that really helps me overcome my fear. He was in an arena with a stallion and the stallion didn't remotely act like I fear my lesson horse will. (I know, I'm as green as they come.)
If you have any suggestions for videos or books like this one, I'd appreciate it.