Cat Troubles...HELP! semi-long
I am having a huge dilemma right now....I have 2 cats and 2 dogs in an apartment (no it doesnt' smell like animals lol) here is their info(in order of seniority):
Boston (female) (siamese minx)-5 1/2 yrs and weighs about 8lbs
Bandit (male) (Pomeranian)-3 1/2 yrs weights 8lbs
Winston (male) (siamese)-3 yrs and weighs about 14lbs
Rex (male) (jack russell)-2 1/2 yrs weighs 12lbs
Now when we first had boston and bandit, things were fine...no problems. then I got winston (dropped off at a pet store :() and he was a holy terror and ripped up the carpet, made everything a mess (typical cat) so we had to keep him kenneled up for the first 6 months whenever we left). Then we got rex, and well, him and Bandit are inseprible.
Now here's my problem. My girl boston had been peeing all over the place for the past 8 months or so.... she goes right next to the litter box, by the front door, and on any rug in the house (not the carpet, just rugs). She also poos there. I've had her checked out for bladder problems ect and there was nothing, so it must be behavioral. She is my boyfriends cat and was a very clean perfect cat before we got the boys. There is no getting rid of her (we dont' believe in getting rid of pets anyways, but...). The dogs don't terrorize her, just play with winston. Winston is a DEE DEE DEE cat... downright brainless. he IS CONSTANTLY picking on boston. I dont' know what to do!!! I am wondering if this is her way of being pissy is by peeing on the floor. He's such a brat to her and I've tried spanking, squirt bottle, throwing something to scare him, I don't know what to do :( Someone help!!! I am at the point right now that I just want to find him a home where someone can play with him all the time. He doens't like human affection, he eats flowers and fuzz off stuff. ugh im so frustrated. We don't give animals away, but I never should have picked him up in the first place. I don't know how to fix this when I have a cat being terrorized by another cat that weighs twice her size!