OP your son has your number and knows what he can get away with.
Any child that raises his voice to me gets reminded that I will no tolerate it. They don't do it again. I do not believe in cprporal punishment but my children to this day will not raise their voice to me, back talk, or refuse to do anything I ask.
First off I don't ask them to do anything I would not.
OP your son understands that for three minutes he has to be good then butter up to you and say I'm sorry. Yet not mean it. You set the rules you set the punishment you set the time limits for it.
If your horse refuses to move to the right, kicks at you or stands in your way you reprimand him without uses force. They get the picuture that you are in charge. They respcet you.
Sorry to say this your son does not respect you.
You earn respect by being consistent firm and fair. No 1,2, 3, now your in trouble. Nip it the first time. Harshly enough verbally to get his attention.
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