I will be 19 soon and my BF wants me to go down and see him where he is stationed because in August he comes back for a few weeks and leaves the country for 2 years and I will see him maybe every 6 months. Im going to college in the fall and I live with my parents until then because im living in the dorms. They don't want me to go down for the fourth and my mom has told me that she trusts me more then my older siblings. I've never drank or smoked im home a lot I take care of my horses and dogs everyday and planning on getting a part time job once school starts, next to my school. I really want to see him and would be buying my own ticket to go down. They seemed fine until I said he was buying the hotel room because I was buying my ticket to go down. I don't see their problem I really want to see him and we've been dating over a months but I've known him for 4 years. I trust him and he wouldn't push me to do anything I didn't want to do and I don't want to do anything..
I was going to see him and we were going to shop, trails, lakes, and amusment parks, and just hang out with his friends. He's in the military btw.
Any advice to help convince them to let me go? My sister is trying to help she doesn't see a problem with it.