Tiny, Yes, the REAL father here is the husband! AndrewPL said it well! And this young man will know it too. Taffy, that is exactly what I meant by telling the family the way it must be. If this woman is at family events, she needs to act like the uninterested uncles girlfriend she is or our OP and her beautiful family will not attend. It's not easy to do, but as adults we must set boundaries to protect our children. The way this "grandma" is acting is cruel and confusing to a child.
OP, I'm sorry you have to deal with this kind of behavior. It's hard enough to be a parent. I am sending you and your family my prayers. It's unfair that some people never act like adults and selfishly do whatever suits them, even when an innoscent child gets hurt.
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