My husband and I stagger our working days. I'm off Mon, Tues, Wed and he's off Thur, Fri, Sat. I'm now working two jobs so he's more "hands on" at the moment then I am.
They will spend my days off at the stables this year, DD will compete in 5 or 6 lead rein shows, and DS will compete in one if we come across an under 3 category again - if not, he will just begrudgingly have to watch her. We will allow him to "warm up" the pony for a few minutes though in order to make him think he's taking part :)
Stop for a minute, open your mind, learn. You may not agree with what I say, I may not agree with what you say but we will both learn something new.