Originally Posted by MapleAir
I was in a situation the other day that still makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up.
I'm a 4-H leader, end 20's and have been riding for 20+ years. I'm always trying to set a good example for the kids at 4-H (wearing a helmet, showing them extra stuff, showing off good horsemanship etc) and we were discussing different types of saddles the other day.
I have a few new kids in my group which I think is great because naturally, the ones who have been in 4-H longer help them out and everyone advances together. Anyway, here I am, showing them my English and Western saddles of different makes and styles and discussing the differences, what they do while riding etc. One of my older kids recognized my brand new English saddle and pointed out that this was the saddle we used when I led them around on my own horse. One of the present mothers squeeles (not in delight) "You don't seriously ride, do you?" Me (in that moment just a bit baffled): "Of course I do. Why do you think I'm a 4-H leader and have 3 different saddles?" With a disgusted look, the mother snorts: "Well, being a leader, I thought you'd have more common sense than to park that huge arse of yours on a helpless horse." Only for the sake of the kids could I manage to stay calm and not hurt anyone.
For real? Talk like that in front of a group of 8-12 year olds? Your won 2 kids amongst them? To someone who donates their time to educate your kids?
I'm sure others have experienced comments like that as well. What do you say in a situation like that?
First of all, what an ungreatful BI**H!!! How RUDE!!! You spend all YOUR time helping HER children and you get treated like that??? I would say "I'm so sorry you feel you have to say rude things to others in front of children and I hope it makes you feel better about yourself. Maybe you would like to show us how to post correctly for an hour? I have over 20 years of knowing how to PREVENT injuries to my horse. If you feel so strongly about me, then please leave."