Originally Posted by ernie5567
Thank you for the advice. I do eat as well as I can around her. She has had her thyroids checked many many times. I really do think it is mostly from her eating a lot of food. When we hang out we eat out all the time. Lots of bacon cheese burgers, burritos,XL sodas, and fries are what she tends to get when we go out.
Maybe you could try suggesting new places, Subway has a great range of choices that are better than burger and fries, but you need to ask her to do it as a favor to you, because you fancy a salad, or want to try something new.
Maybe you could try suggesting trying it, because you have and you were amazed how much better you felt eating better stuff.
Believe me, as a fat person I don't want people to be telling me to change my habits, but being a nice person I'm good at following a lead.
Oh and be prepared for ingratitude, DH went to the city yesterday and brought me home fruit, FRUIT, I would of killed for ice cream, or chocolate, but he brought me FRUIT!!!! Shows what a good and loving man he really is, and the fruit was nice, would have been better with ice cream *sigh*