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Colorado Dobes 01-05-2009 11:13 PM

This horse may be too much for me!
I got my 20 month old filly on Friday. Although I've owned horses all my life, this is my first youngster. She leads, picks up her feet, etc. She isn't skittish at all. Seems like a great horse!

She has developed an unbelievable obsession with one of the other horses at the barn. If he gets out of her sight, she goes berserk (they are separated but can "talk" over the fence). Yesterday, I went to the barn to feed her, and I had a really difficult time getting a lead rope on her because she wouldn't be still. She was having a fit to get to this other horse. I finally got her in the barn and noticed that she had a small cut on her face. I was examining it, when all the sudden she bit me right in the face! I popped her in the neck with the lead rope after it happened. After that, since she was so frantic to get in her stall (next to her buddy), I decided not to put her up right away. I lead her around and worked on her not following me so closely on a lead rope. She did fantastic.

Today, however, I went to the barn, and she acted like a completely different horse. I went in the pasture with her but before I went to put the lead rope on her, I was examining her. She was frantic, pacing the gate, wanting to get out to go in the barn where the other horses were. Then she KICKED at me, and ran off!

When I caught her, I put the lead rope on her and started working on leading exercises while we were out in the pasture. She really was trying me today. Yesterday, she totally respected my boundaries after I threw a few elbows back at her when she got too close. Today, instead of walking farther behind me, she turned her head all the way to the right and walked like that right beside me and sometimes even out in front of me, so I couldn't reach her with elbows. She'd walk right up on me and then circle out so her butt would be coming out towards me. I'd jerk her back towards me every time. A couple of times she just pulled the lead rope out of my hand and galloped around the pasture.

Her behavior has me freaked out and worried that I may have bitten off more than I can chew with her. Even though biting hurts, I am not afraid to get bitten. I AM afraid to get kicked. I've never been kicked at before.

Does anyone have any suggestions for me?

BarneyBabby 01-05-2009 11:59 PM

First off, shes being herd sour. But you dont need me to tell you that. But I would keep her in a stall away from other horses.

mariah0707 01-06-2009 12:09 AM

Yikes. Thats no fun. Sounds like love. My thoroughbred gelding has a similar obsession with one of my mares. It all goes back to the basic order of a herd, and who is boss.In my experience your filly sees that gelding as her "man" he's the boss in her eyes, he controls where she's gonna put her feet, and how she is to act. When she is taken away from that, she feels as though her leader has been taken away and she has trouble being the "leader" This is what happens to my gelding, he is a follower. In that case, you need to show your filly that actually, as long as you are around, YOU are "the man!" Of course, that isn't as easy as it sounds. Those leading excersises sound good, anything that can get her mind focusing on a job, and you leading is helpful. My gelding and i went through a period where i got a little scared to handle him. Sounds like where you are at. They get a little disrespectful, and the fact is, horses are bigger. What really made the difference in my gelding was this:
I put him in a round pen, in a indoor arena where he couldnt see his mare, and it was hard to hear her. So for about the first 15min, he raced around, pacing at the gate, going crazy whinnying, kicking, all of that. This is a prime example of a horse being in need of leadership..before he got to the point where he could endanger himself, i stepped into the ring, and he continued this behaviour, no respect for me. My favourite training tool is a torn plastic bag on the end of a dressage whip. I use this tool as a question. It does not always mean move, and is not to scare the horse or anything. i began slowly shaking it, point downwards at my side, and increased the noise until he began to tune in. After a while, he actually stopped, and looked at me. So i stopped shaking it. He return to his crazyness. I repeated the shaking. It only took about 4 trys before he was very aware the shaking bag was "asking" him to focus on me. He then tried the old "join up" trick of coming into the middle for a pet. I gave it to him, but shortly after he began pacing and focused on what was outside of the arena. So, shaking bag, he stops and looks. This time, i gave him verbl praise, and asked him, with the bag, to back up. I did this by making my intention very clear in my head, and through my core. I used the bag, very slowly, while moving towards him, with lots of forward motion, to encourage him to back. We continued with these sorts of things, and eventually i moved him around the pen. As soon as his mind went away from me, i brought it back, either by one of the excersises i already discribed, or moving him around the pen, getting him to change direction, stop and back up, using my intention. i focused on this mainly in the farthest side of the pen, away from the gate and door as much as possible. After about an hour of this, i would do "leading games" around the arena, using my little tool, until he had forgotten about his mare, and i was the one leading. We spent about a month doing this consistently, but he improved amazingly even with in a few days. It has gotten to the point now, where he is excellent without her, in fact, at his best. When he is with her, for example if both of them are being ridden together, he will tend to forget that he is to choose me as the leader. Then, i bring back basic excersises to remind him gently.
I know this is long, but i hope it helps. If you have any questions about this, just message me.

Midwest Paint 01-06-2009 04:23 AM

Please remember the Conscientious Etiquette Policy.

Midwest Paint 01-06-2009 04:26 AM

That was extremely inappropriate.

Midwest Paint 01-06-2009 04:50 AM

Your english has improved.

Angel_Leaguer 01-06-2009 07:40 AM


Originally Posted by Midwest Paint (Post 223055)
Your english has improved.

Im guessing some posts have been deleted???

jazzyrider 01-06-2009 07:41 AM

yes they have. there were some very inappropriate posts

Angel_Leaguer 01-06-2009 10:21 AM


Originally Posted by jazzyrider (Post 223157)
yes they have. there were some very inappropriate posts

Thanks... I was confused since I didnt really see anything wrong with the previous posts.

Colorado Dobes 01-06-2009 10:29 AM

Getting back to my original problem....

All of my training DVDs and most of my books start with a horse that is already leading and ready to begin groundwork. Does anyone know of any material that might address the problems I'm having with her?

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