Thanks! I rode her today and I just tried the tough love tactic ha. She still is not going as well as she was, but that might take time to get back. I never let her get away with not doing it, she just isn't doing it as well as I know she can, and I need to get her back to that. I'll add more later, but I think that it's just that she thinks she should get to stop when she wants and that's not how it is. I feel like my body position might be hindering her some. Just because she's reining trained and I need to talk to the trainer about how he trained her... but usually I just try to raise my butt out of the saddle a little because she seems like that helps her to move easier. I think in time we'll work better together and she'll respond to my cues more, but... just takes time. =)
To rein a horse is not only to guide him,
but also to control his every movement.