I feel for you....I am recovering from knee surgery right now. Had surgery Friday. I did let hubby wait on me somewhat this weekend. I wait on him hand and foot most of the time so I didn't feel the least bit guilty about it.
The worst thing is not being about to get out and play with my horses....I miss them. I drove myself out to see them awhile ago...Biscuit's though bubble said "where have you been sister?" and I got to rub his face. That made me feel better than just about anything.
Take care and hope you are better soon...take the help...we wait on others...let them take a turn!