OP - Every where you go there is someone leaner? Everywhere I go there is someone with more curves than me. I'm built like a 2 x 4! The only department in stores that has clothes that actually fit me, is the Boy's department, sizes 14-16. That's Boy's. Lol On the upside jeans are cheaper.
Hangers compliment dresses better than my figure does. Last summer a man walking behind me growled, "Why don't you get a haircut." I knew immediately he thought I was some kid in jeans and a t-shirt. I whipped around and said "Because I'm a grandma and I'll wear my hair however I want!" He about died.
I was at a dance club with friends and the dee jay calls out, "Someone please dance with the girl with the skinny legs." Every one grins at me.
So, yeah, I might be leaner than, oh, 80% of y'all, but it has it's downsides, too! Gotta keep a sense of humor about the variety of ways God made us.