His trainer has grown up training Andalusians and makes his successful living doing exactly that. The horse has been bridle trained and has worked with a surcingle but due to his size and lameness a few months ago, they held off his backing.
I explained this all to the kid (i consider him a friend) but he seemed to think I was overreacting. I have worked for my boss for 3 years and I truly love her. She is everything I like to work but I don't want to mess up the guys' life.
I know I have to tell my boss, but how much do I tell. I don't want them to get fired, but if it every happens again, I will bury him in the manure pit and only give him a straw to breath out of.
As a horse owner myself, I was truly offended by his audacity. How much should I say... how guilty should I feel. Currently it's guilt and not guilt...