If you have bought from firefighters wife and not received your items, I would like to know about it. I paid for some side reins and was told they shipped on the 18th. Haven't heard from her since and she hasn't been back on here. Looking for others in the same boat.
Gut instinct says she won't be back. She just joined on the 5th of August. My general rule of thumb is that if they haven't been an established member for at least a year, I don't do business with them.
You might be out the $$ you spent, unless you went through Paypal. I hope it gets resolved for you two, though.